Talk Talk Talk


Talk, Talk, Talk
How many times have you read or heard that self-talk is important? The answer is probably, quite a lot.
I believe self-talk has two important components. One is the inner dialogue you have with yourself such as when you think things like, Im no good or This will be difficult or I love this! These are all examples of the types of inner dialogue you could have. Different words and phrases work for different people because everyone has their own personal style for what works best for them.
The second component of self-talk relates to the way you talk ABOUT yourself to others. Do you make sarcastic or negative comments about yourself? Do you talk yourself up to others by trying to make yourself look like something youre not?
Self-talk IS important because of the predictive nature that words have in how they impact how you feel, what you do and the outcomes you experience both on and off the golf course. Most books on Sports Psychology or Peak Performance write about the importance of self-talk and offer some examples of positive self talk such as, I love this, This is great or I can do this and Im ready. Many of my clients have made attempts to replace their old self-talk with the new self-talk, but found sporadic success with it. Why? Because using positive words is just the beginning. There is something that is just as important. Its called: belief. If you try to build confidence by using confident words but you dont really believe themyou probably wont experience confidence at the level you would like or at the moment you need it. The reason that negative talk seems to impact us so strongly is because we tend to believe it moreeven though we know its not good for our game.
How do you talk to yourself? How do you talk ABOUT yourself?
To Your Best Golf!
Related Links:

  • David Breslow Article Archive
    Copyright 2007 All Rights Reserved. David Breslow is a national speaker, author and Performance Coach. His book, Wired To Win is available at 888.280.7715 or online by clicking here. His clients include professional athletes (PGA, LPGA, other sports) as well as Business Organizations. He brings a fresh, direct, no-nonsense revolutionary approach to unleashing Human Performance helping people make quicker and more powerful shifts in attitude, behavior, and action. His articles are read by over 400,000 people per month on The Golf Channel website and David frequently speaks to organizations of all sizes who want to create real shifts in how people, think, feel and perform every day. For more info on Infinite Golf Workshops/Programs, E-Books, One on One Coaching and Presentations; please visit: or email: or call: 847.681.0247.