Did You Hear What You Said

By David BreslowOctober 19, 2005, 4:00 pm
Are you aware of the things you say to yourself during a round of golf? Are the comments you make complimentary or judgmental?
 
The words you say to yourself are very important. Most of the comments we make toward ourselves are done with lightning speed out of sheer habit. Often, were not aware of them because they happen so fast.
 
Marcia has a 14 handicap and says she experiences a lot of negativity on the golf course. Even when shes playing well she says she can be pretty demanding of herself. She says shes a perfectionist and expects a lot of herself when she plays. As a result she has a lot to say on almost every shot. She spends the majority of her time judging her game rather than complimenting it. Although Marcia knows her self-talk is important she didnt realize the power that words really have on her game.
 
Like Marcia, the challenge for many golfers is realizing:
  1. The mind, body and emotions are linked together and are always communicating with each other.

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  3. The words we repeat influence the communication process; affecting how we feel and what we do.
Your words have power. Your subconscious mind doesnt know the difference between a positive word or a negative word. It simply accepts them both and sends the message to the rest of your body. Are you aware of the words or phrases you tend to repeat? Here are some of the negative words Marcia repeated to herself throughout one round of golf:
 
  • Youre so terrible!
  • What are you doing?
  • I hope I hit this well.
  • Its about time!
  • I usually have trouble with this shot.
  • I cant make this.
  • This better go where I want it to.
     
    When I showed her these phrases she wasnt even aware she was saying them. This is how subtle words can be. We repeat them so often that the mind simply replays the tape without our awareness.
     
    ON-COURSE EXERCISE: Heres a simple exercise you can do to raise your awareness of the subtle negative self-talk that pops up on the course the next time you play.
    1. Make a small mark on your scorecard for every negative comment you make to yourself or about yourself.

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    3. Do this again on the next round and notice if you have fewer marks on your card.

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    5. Write a list of positive words/phrases on a 3 x 5 card and put it in your pocket. When you notice any negative words/phrases, replace them with one of the words / phrases on your card.
    What often happens is that simply being aware of the negative words or phrases helps to reduce how often they occur.
     
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    • This is the first time since the 2013 Open at Royal Lytham & St. Annes that Tiger shot par or better in each of the first two rounds of a major. That’s quite a long time ago.

    • Stat line for the day: 11 of 15 fairways, 13 of 18 greens, 32 total putts. Tiger hit one driver and two 3-woods on Thursday and four drivers on Friday, only one which found the fairway. An errant drive at the second led to him sniping his next shot into the gallery

     


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    • In his own words: “I could have cleaned up the round just a little bit. I got off to not exactly the best start, being 2 over through three, but got it back. The golf course was a little bit softer today, obviously. It rains, and we were able to get the ball down a little bit further, control the ball on the ground a little bit easier today, which was nice.”

    • At some point Tiger is going to have to be more aggressive. He will be quite a few shots off the lead by day’s end and he'll have a lot of ground to make up. Hitting irons off the tee is great for position golf, but it’s often leaving him more than 200 yards into the green. Not exactly a range for easy birdies.

    • Sure, it’s too soon to say Tiger can’t win a fourth claret jug, but with so many big names ahead of him on the leaderboard, it’s unlikely. Keep in mind that a top-six finish would guarantee him a spot in the WGC: Bridgestone Invitational in two weeks. At The Players, he stated that this was a big goal.

    • My Twitter account got suspended momentarily when Tiger was standing over a birdie putt on the 17th green. That was the most panicked I’ve been since Tiger was in contention at the Valspar.