The Pursuit of Happiness

By David BreslowDecember 10, 2008, 5:00 pm
Every golfer finds something different to be happy -- or unhappy -- about on the golf course. But is their happiness based on shooting lower scores? The problem is that many of my clients have made a habit of putting the cart before the horse. They believe if they shoot lower scores, then they will be happy. However, if you learn how to be happy first, then you will put yourself in position to shoot lower scores more often!
 
Ronald, a seven handicap told me a story. He was on his home course in Southern California when he noticed a golfer who was playing quite poorly, yet completely enjoying himself throughout his round. This man didnt have a particularly good golf swing, wasnt shooting a great score but he was truly enjoying himself. Ronald, on the other hand was being his usual serious self, trying hard to play his best and moving through his round with familiar tension and anxiety. Ronald became livid watching this other fellow enjoy himself. Ronald, the more skilled golfer, was trying so hard to play great golf while this stranger was having fun.
 
Eighty-five percent of my clients admit they are not enjoying themselves as much as theyd like. In addition, 80 percent of them feel they arent playing to their full talent level. They don't realize that enjoying yourself has nothing to do with your talent level. Its all about learning how to use your mind, body and emotions in such a way that having fun just comes natural. Learning to have fun first resolves numerous performance challenges. The trap is, If I play well, Ill have fun. The reality is, If you enjoy yourself first, youll influence how often you tend to play well.
 
THE FUN FACTOR
 
Everyone defines fun differently, so lets take a look at your Fun Factor. Here are the directions. Copy and print the list below. Complete this at the end of your next round while everything is fresh. To the right of each item on your list, mark the percentage that reflects your level of happiness or satisfaction. Your total should equal 100%.
 

FACTORPERCENTAGE
Overall Game (your general feeling about how well or poorly you play the game) %
Scoring Well (shooting the score you think you should shoot/Focusing on score)%
Playing with friends (Social Aspect)%
Beautiful Course Conditions (layout, style, etc.)%
Weather Conditions%
Exercise%
Course location/services/amenities%
Competitiveness (tournament play, intensity, etc.)%
TOTAL%

 
By filling out the Fun Factor scorecard you will get an honest look at what drives your Fun Factor on the golf course.
 
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To Your Best Golf!
 
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    By Ryan LavnerJuly 20, 2018, 4:32 pm

    CARNOUSTIE, Scotland – If this was Sandy Lyle’s final Open appearance, he went out in style.

    Playing on the final year of his automatic age exemption, the 60-year-old Scot buried a 30-foot birdie on the last hole. He missed the cut after shooting 9-over 151 over two rounds.

    “I was very light-footed,” he said. “I was on cloud nine walking down the 18th. To make birdie was extra special.”


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    Lyle, who also won the 1988 Masters, has missed the cut in his last eight majors, dating to 2014. He hasn’t been competitive in The Open since 1998, when he tied for 19th.

    To continue playing in The Open, Lyle needed to finish in the top 10 here at Carnoustie. He’d earn a future exemption by winning the Senior British Open.

    “More punishment,” he said.

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    DJ, Thomas miss cut at Open; No. 1 up for grabs

    By Ryan LavnerJuly 20, 2018, 3:35 pm

    CARNOUSTIE, Scotland – The top two players in the world both missed the cut at The Open, creating the possibility of a shakeup at the top of the rankings by the end of the weekend.

    Dustin Johnson became the first world No. 1 since Luke Donald in 2011 to miss the cut at the year’s third major.

    Johnson played solidly for all but the closing stretch. Over two rounds, he was 6 over par on the last three holes. He finished at 6-over 148.


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    Thomas added to what’s been a surprisingly poor Open record. Just like last year, when he struggled in the second round in the rain at Royal Birkdale, Thomas slumped to a 77 on Friday at Carnoustie, a round that included three consecutive double bogeys on Nos. 6-8. He finished at 4-over 146.

    It’s Thomas' first missed cut since The Open last year. Indeed, in three Open appearances, he has two missed cuts and a tie for 53rd.  

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    Justin Rose, Brooks Koepka and Jon Rahm all can reach No. 1 with a victory this week.

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    TT Postscript: Woods (71) makes cut, has work to do

    By Tiger TrackerJuly 20, 2018, 3:32 pm

    CARNOUSTIE, Scotland – Here are a few things I think I think after Tiger Woods shot a second consecutive even-par 71 Friday in the second round. And yes, he made the cut:

    • Tiger said all 71s are not created equal. On Thursday, he made three birdies and three bogeys. On Friday, he made four birdie and four bogeys. Which round was better? The first. His theory is that, despite the rain, conditions were easier in the second round and there were more scoring opportunities. He didn't take advantage.

    • This is the first time since the 2013 Open at Royal Lytham & St. Annes that Tiger shot par or better in each of the first two rounds of a major. That’s quite a long time ago.

    • Stat line for the day: 11 of 15 fairways, 13 of 18 greens, 32 total putts. Tiger hit one driver and two 3-woods on Thursday and four drivers on Friday, only one which found the fairway. An errant drive at the second led to him sniping his next shot into the gallery

     


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    • In his own words: “I could have cleaned up the round just a little bit. I got off to not exactly the best start, being 2 over through three, but got it back. The golf course was a little bit softer today, obviously. It rains, and we were able to get the ball down a little bit further, control the ball on the ground a little bit easier today, which was nice.”

    • At some point Tiger is going to have to be more aggressive. He will be quite a few shots off the lead by day’s end and he'll have a lot of ground to make up. Hitting irons off the tee is great for position golf, but it’s often leaving him more than 200 yards into the green. Not exactly a range for easy birdies.

    • Sure, it’s too soon to say Tiger can’t win a fourth claret jug, but with so many big names ahead of him on the leaderboard, it’s unlikely. Keep in mind that a top-six finish would guarantee him a spot in the WGC: Bridgestone Invitational in two weeks. At The Players, he stated that this was a big goal.

    • My Twitter account got suspended momentarily when Tiger was standing over a birdie putt on the 17th green. That was the most panicked I’ve been since Tiger was in contention at the Valspar.

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    Woods fires shot into crowd: 'I kept moving them back'

    By Ryan LavnerJuly 20, 2018, 3:14 pm

    CARNOUSTIE, Scotland – It added up to another even-par round, but Tiger Woods had an eventful Friday at The Open.

    His adventure started on the second hole, when he wiped a drive into the right rough. Standing awkwardly on the side of a mound, he prepared for a quick hook but instead fired one into the crowd that was hovering near the rope line.

    “I kept moving them back,” he said. “I moved them back about 40 yards. I was trying to play for the grass to wrap the shaft around there and hit it left, and I was just trying to hold the face open as much as I possibly could. It grabbed the shaft and smothered it.


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    “I was very, very fortunate that I got far enough down there where I had a full wedge into the green.”

    Woods bogeyed the hole, one of four on the day, and carded four birdies in his round of 71 at Carnoustie. When he walked off the course, he was in a tie for 30th, six shots off the clubhouse lead.

    It’s the first time in five years – since the 2013 Open – that Woods has opened a major with consecutive rounds of par or better. He went on to tie for sixth that year at Muirfield.